I just read an article about the website Birthdays Without Pressure. It really cracked me up, because for my son's last birthday (6 days after Christmas) I was so tired that I didn't plan anything at all. We stopped off at the grocery store and bought a cake on our way to Grandma's house. The kids all played football in the street with the neighborhood children. And at the end of the day, my son said it was a great party.
During the day, I had a few pangs of guilt that I didn't try harder to make it a "special" day, but it turned out better than any of the parties that I worked so hard on in the past. The only major stress of the day was taking the wrapper off of the cake.
Anyway, I like the trend away from extravagant parties.
I'm not a Mom, but I've never understood the gigantic b-day party for kids. I think a little celebration with family and maybe a couple of friends is appropriate, and fine.
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